Divorce is Difficult
Nothing can be more personal or heart wrenching than to be in the middle of a divorce. Many times there are young children involved, who do not understand the torment their parents are going through. All they want to know is if they are safe and secure. It is a delicate and emotional time, and you want to be assured that you can be able to get past this trauma as sensibly and as emotionally intact, and as quickly as the law will allow.
There is also the matter of economics. You have saved during your marriage, and you have purchased and acquired assets. You also have property that was given to you by your parents, for example. How will those assets be divided. What are you entitled to, and what can you expect your situation to be once the matrimonial matter has been concluded. There may be pensions involved, bank accounts and real estate.